Everybody’s looking for that Responsible Adult;

and when that Responsible Adult

walks into the room, everyone will know it —

even the nervous dogs that shy when you make a move.

 

They slink, so you have to sit quietly, minding your own business,

concentrating very gently on your time-consuming nemesis.

Then they’ll come up to you and check your scent.

They’re like the subdued men in laundromats,

standing quietly by themselves,

with their own personal habits and grimaces,

when a sudden thought or disappointment

will inflame them; they start up 

in impotent fury, impotent because defused.

Their anger flares up and dies away.

 

Everyone is looking for that Responsible Adult,

and when that One comes, even the dogs and old men will know it —

they most of all — 

and they’ll laugh and say,

“Now we’re all really going to get fed!”

 

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Appeared in The Deronda Review:  a magazine of poetry and thought, Vol. VIII, No. 1, 2019.  The theme suggested for that issue was “Utopia.”

Categories: Poems

Reuven Goldfarb

Writer, editor, and teacher, Reuven Goldfarb has published poetry, stories, essays, articles, and Divrei Torah in scores of periodicals and anthologies and won several awards. Reuven published and edited AGADA, the illustrated Jewish literary magazine (1981-88), taught Freshman English at Oakland’s Merritt College (1988-97) and courses in Poetry Immersion and Short Story Intensive as a freelancer in Tzfat (2009-12). Goldfarb served the Aquarian Minyan as officer and service leader for 25 years and received s’micha from Rabbi Zalman Schachter-Shalomi as Morenu, Maggid, and Rabbinic Deputy in 1993. He now works as a copy editor for books and manuscripts and coordinates monthly meetings for the Upper Galilee branch of Voices Israel. He and his wife Yehudit host classes, workshops, and a weekly Talmud shiur in their Galilee home.